Dirty talk gives people permission to surrender to their deepest, darkest, wildest fantasies.
Women are able to take control of the word and use it on their own terms.
This linguistic exchange can reveal the darker fantasies of the mind and be played out in the privacy of the bedroom.
These biological differences are just the many ways men and women’s brain function differs when it comes to sex.
Daryl Cioffi, specializing in couples, relationships, sex, neuropsychology, and owner of Polaris Counseling & Consulting in Patucket, R.
When we look past the kinkiness, we may find there’s more to dirty talk than our desire to bring out our wild side. The brain is considered a more powerful sexual organ than even male and female genitalia because it’s where sex drive stems from.
The right amount of dirty talk will excite the mind.
A woman who calls up her partner at work to say to him “when you come home sweetheart, I'm going to let you tie me to the bedpost, handcuff me, and arrest me," says Walfish, is vocalizing her fantasy outside the bedroom."One possibility is maybe she has a dependent personality and maybe she likes the idea of submitting to a dominant, powerful force," she said.
"Or maybe she fantasizes about being the dominant one and is afraid to put that on to her guy to do it first, so she tests the waters."Basically, when we assume a persona via dirty talk or role playing, we have an easier time being sexual.
According to the researchers, even the slightest anxiety about communication affected whether partners were communicating or not. Those who did communicate during sex were more likely to experience sexual satisfaction.
In other words, engaging in a dialogue that feels good with our partner can heighten the sexual experience.
I., says dirty talk is a whole mind and body experience."People very much enjoy dirty talking because it activates all regions of your brain while your body is also getting stimulated," Cioffi told For example, many powerful women in their everyday lives and jobs enjoy being more submissive in the bed, says Cioffi, because it stimulates the amygdala.